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afro-elf:

i wanna be WOOED this decade, fully and unrealistically WOOED

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kimreesesdaughter:

The year is 2020 and I’m a Black girl who lives in luxury. Accounts? Plush. Skin? Clear. Brows? Fleeky. Bills? Paid. Income? Flowing. Career? Flourishing. Passport? Stamped. I’m in love with my life. My finances are the best they’ve ever been. My relationships are effortless and fulfilling. My self esteem is through the roof and I accept nothing less than what I desire and deserve.

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12 Steps For Self Care

cwote:

1. If it feels wrong, don’t do it
   
2. Say exactly what you mean
   
3. Don’t be a people pleaser
   
4. Trust your instincts 
   
5. Never speak bad about yourself
   
6. Never give up on your dreams
   
7. Don’t be afraid to say “no”
   
8. Don’t be afraid to say “yes”
   
9. Be KIND to yourself
   
10. Let go of what you can’t control
    
11. Stay away from drama & negativity
    
12. LOVE
    

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aidashakur:

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purplebuddhaproject:

“Start over my darling. Be brave enough to find the life you want and courageous enough to chase it. Then start over and love yourself the way you were always meant to.”

— Madalyn Beck (via purplebuddhaquotes)

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purplebuddhaproject:

“You deserve something you don’t have to question. You deserve someone who is sure of you.”

— r.h. Sin
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me-and-bobby-mcgeee:

“If you criticize X in women but do not criticize X in men, then you do not have a problem with X, you have a problem with women. For X please insert words like ‘anger,’ ‘ambition,’ ‘loudness,’ ‘stubbornness,’ ‘coldness,’ ‘ruthlessness.’”

—Chimamanda Ngozie Adichie, Dear Ijeawele, or a Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions

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